Ron, thanks for responding with this very relatable story. I had to laugh at your example of invalidation in validation’s clothing! A good reminder that we can parrot words without meaning them. The interesting response in the roof example would have dug for your wife’s rationale. “You’d rather wait on the roof fix. What’s the advantage of waiting?” Glad the roof issues didn’t come to blows. You live to validate another day!

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